Thursday, January 03, 2008
Just read the following from Flowerpod. Super Duper Nice!Everyone would want their relationship to be as romantic as what they see in the movies, as mushy and die-heartedly in the novels they read.
However Love is practical, although we wish it isn’t.
When two people get together, it’s the celebration of the union of two lost souls that found each other in the mist of hope.
As the mist begins to clear, the relationship will start to get practical.
The two of you will have arguments even with the slightest thing. What to have for dinner? Which blouse to buy? Whether he should stay in his current job or otherwise.
Money & time become the two most important factors in a relationship.
Monetary on, how he would disagree on you spending half your monthly pay on a bag then expect him to foot the bill for every outing.
How she would nag him on his spending on video games and technology gadgets.
Time on, how she would disagree on the coffee sessions that you’ve spent with your band of brothers.
How he would feel that you are not spending enough time with him.
As the relationship gets longer and deeper, the more problems will arise with money and time.
Then you looked back and ask yourself.
“Is this love? Or is this purely how two people allocate their time and money? Why can’t love be pure? ”
Perhaps one day you will find yourself in this situation when you talk about time or money. Love is no longer as innocent as we wished.
To maintain a relationship, you have to manage your time and money. For which any of those you can’t supply enough, you will probably lose the relationship.
This is Love, practically.
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Sometimes it is ironic to say that love gives you the most blessed feeling that you’ve ever experience. When most of the times during your life, the thing that hurt you the most is love too.
Whether it is the time when you are secretly in love with someone or the time you were rejected, the feeling of hurt left a deep cut in your broken heart. Even when the both of you are finally together, you have to endure each other’s bad points and may finally break off in the end.
Guess love is a scary thing, so scary that many people had been hurt by love with some taking their own life with it.
With the possibility of getting hurt at some point,
Why do we still find love so mesmerizing?
The process of finding love is tough for there are obstacles that we can’t solve. However the end result is something that nobody can describe. Even the best poet or story writer can’t tell you what love is all about. Because love is something you need to experience.
To experience love is experience the upper and lower of your extreme emotions.
To experience love is to prepare to face the feeling of Festive, Contented, relaxed, calm, complacent, satisfied, serene, comfortable, Peaceful, Joyous, Ecstatic, Enthusiastic, Inspired, Glad, Pleased, Grateful, Cheerful, Excited, Cheery, Lighthearted, Buoyant, Carefree, Surprised,Optimistic,Spirited,Vivacious,Brisk,Sparkling,Merry,Generous,Hilarious
,Exhilarated,Jolly,Playful,Elated,Jubilant,Thrilled,Restful
Silly, Acceptance, Agitation, Alarm, Amusement, Anger, Angst, Annoyance, Anticipation, Apprehension, Apathy, Awe, Bitterness, Boredom Betrayal, Cautiousness, Comfort, Contentment, Confidence, Courage, Depression, Disappointment, Discontentment, Disgust, Desire, Delight, Determination, Elation or Euphoria, Embarrassment, Ennui, Envy, Ecstasy, Fear, Friendship, Frustration, Glee, Gladness, Gratitude, Grief, Guilt, Hate, Happiness, Honor, Hope, Horror, Humility, Impatience, Inadequacy, Irritability, Joy, Jealousy, Kindness, Loneliness, Love, Lust, Limerence, Melancholy, Modesty, Nervousness, Negativity, Nostalgia, Pain, Patience, Peace, Phobia, Pity, Pride, Rage, Regret, Remorse, Resentment, Sadness, Self-pity, Shame, Shyness, Sorrow, Shock, Suffering, Surprise, Suspense, Unhappiness, Vulnerability, Worry, Yearning and Zest at some point of you life.
This is the feeling that keeps us going, to seek true love. To love and to be loved in return.
This is Love, emotionally.
Credit to Keekx from Flowerpod. I nearly cried after reading his story.
Stephy
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